We Both Want to Get Divorced

Coming to the realization that ending your marriage is the best path forward for you and your spouse can be a profound moment. When you both want to get a divorce, it can pave the way for an amicable resolution, especially if you commit to open communication and fair negotiations.

By maintaining respect for one another despite your differences you stand a better chance of creating the easiest process possible as you navigate this major life transition. Working through the details together can prevent unnecessary emotional turmoil and mental anguish. What’s more, it can minimize future conflict and allow you to devote your focus toward building the life you dream of post-divorce.

Working Together Works Best

Once you’ve agreed that you both want to get divorced, what is the next step?

In order to start the process one of you must file a petition with the court and the other must be served, similar to initiating a lawsuit. If you are the one that decides to file first and your spouse fails to respond to the petition, the divorce can proceed anyway without them being represented by legal counsel or having their rights protected.

On the other hand, if your spouse initiates filing first and you are the one being served, you should promptly consult a California attorney specializing in divorce.

As long as you and your partner agree that the time has come to dissolve the marriage (the legal term for this is ‘mutual consent’), then you can file an uncontested divorce, which puts you at an advantage. Due to the fact that there is no need for a trial when both parties agree on all the legal issues and sign a marital settlement agreement, uncontested divorces are usually more affordable than contested divorces.

It is important to remember throughout this process that communication and compromise are essential. Disagreements can arise but approaching them with a willingness to listen and find mutually beneficial solutions is key. This mindset allows you to reach important agreements with fewer hiccups.

Even if you are on good terms, you still need help with the legal process. Most jurisdictions require a formal legal process to dissolve a marriage, regardless of mutual agreement. Focusing on cooperation instead of conflict can create a smoother separation process, minimizing stress and ensuring everyone’s needs are considered, especially if children are involved.

Getting Help Where You Need It

In any case, even the most cooperative couples often require help with the divorce legal process, particularly when it comes to paperwork and filing. An experienced divorce attorney or a trusted legal professional can guide you through these formalities, so you meet all requirements and deadlines put forth by the court. This expert insight ensures that your agreement is legally sound and that you understand your rights and obligations. If you and your spouse are in agreement on most of the financial and other issues surrounding your divorce, a guided online process, such as that offered by Green Giraffe, can move you through the process quickly with minimal fees.

If you’re ready to move forward or have questions about specific divorce procedures, don’t hesitate to contact us at Green Giraffe Legal for personalized support.